Should You Date People Based Solely On Height?

One thing, as a tall person, that I hear a lot is that I am so lucky to be so tall. I would argue that just because I’m tall doesn’t mean I’ve had luck in that area all my life. Currently I do have a partner, but in terms of dating there is a bit more to it than just being tall. If being tall was the only requirement, then I got screwed by God or whatever because that did not work out for me like that.

My Personal Experience Is That I Like Honesty

I last was dating over a decade ago before I met my now wife but during that process I learned that people are shallow, but only to a certain extent. I had one woman, for instance, that knew she didn’t want a man with a beard and a requirement to meet me out in public was to shave. That made me mad at first, thinking of how shallow that is, but then I realized it kept me from wasting my time and her time so it really was a good thing for her to be vocal instead of just letting me be ugly to her all the time if we did date.

I’ve always been the nerdy kid that is the odd one out. I am on the spectrum, too, so that doesn’t help matters. I have not been unlucky with dating but I haven’t been as successful as all the shorter guys I know. I actually now think I’d d better if I had to re-enter that domain because I’ve aged nicely but honestly most people I meet are not on my wavelength and like I said I have a partner so it’s not really important for me to go down that road.

I get tired of people assuming they won’t get laid because this or that is wrong with them. Friends, I’ve seen people that may as well be living under a bridge get someone pregnant. Human nature is not that hard to figure out, even if people say stuff like women are impossible, if you think about it you can easily eclipse most of the men in a woman’s life just by holding employment and even then there are tons of unemployed losers with lots of interested women in their orbit.

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Why Do People Get Picky When Looking For Dates?

Look, I’m sure we’ve all been told that everyone has value and that’s true to a certain extent but just because you tolerate someone sometimes doesn’t mean you should make them a partner. If you get with someone you don’t vibe with then living with them is going to be a nightmare. To me, it makes no sense to date someone you don’t have an attraction to whether that be based on how tall they are or not.

I actually don’t care how tall someone is because I accepted a long time ago that I’m generally going to be taller than women I am around. I have seen maybe half a dozen women in my almost 40 years on the planet that are taller than I am. I prefer women that I find attractive, however, and that’s normal in my opinion. It’s not normal to be a low empathy asshole, either, but try not to force yourself to like a person you really don’t get along with in the first place.

What’s Your View On Height When Finding A Partner?

Would you automatically say yes to a tall person if they asked you on a date? Is there more to it than that? Let me know in the comments and if you have anything else to add or that you’d like to see on here please let me know!

-Brandon